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How compatibility works in the dating world


Some people believe that people who are unlike each other are more likely to find each other interesting. And that's why the phrase, 'opposites attract' has become so familiar. But when you actually study the people who are in long term relationships or marriages, the more common case is that they have a lot in common. While an opposite type may seem intriguing at first, once you are living together or building lives together, things work out much better when you have a high level of compatibility.


It's no surprise, then, that compatibility matching has become a huge thing in the dating world. The most notable case of this is eharmony, which has long been one of the most popular dating services on the web. To join eharmony, you need to answer a whole series of questions. The answers provided are then used to generate something called a personality profile. The profile is then used to match you to people with whom you should be compatible. If this sounds rather complex, there is no need to worry, because a computer algorithm will do almost all the work for you. All you need to do is answer questions, then view the matches the system generates, and decide if you want to communicate with any of them.


Even when you use a powerful algorithm, however, the system is still less than perfect, so there will be a certain amount of trial and error required before you find the right person. But the amount of trial and error required will be far less than what you might have to go through if you were not using some sort of compatibility matching system like the one offered from eharmony. (Incidentally, you can get an eharmony free trial from this online dating site if you want to check it out.)


The other option is to find someone you are compatible with in the real world using your own judgement. If you are still young and have time before you want to settle down, then this can be a good way to explore who you are. But it should be noted that this type of approach is a much more inexact science. And our mind can play tricks on us and make us believe we want a certain type of individual, when this might not be the case at all. It is for this reason that anyone who is getting older or wants to get into a long-term relationship right away should opt for a service like eharmony instead.


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